ironies of life!!
but this happens everyday in many people's lifes.
I remember when i was sometimes accused of not dating a friend "because he was ugly or fat", when i knew at the same time the guy liked me becuase of superficial reasons.
Probably we were both to blame.
On the other hand, many times, when some man i liked/loved wants me to be more this or that, i thought, well, if i was "more this or that", maybe i will be looking for something mooore in you!
we all should know our own flaws better and respect more other people's