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Its true and i have wondered why, in european culture marriage has never meant to keep men from lust. the european cliche is the man in an old marriage that cant stand his wife or doesnt appreciate her. and the other way around as well. and the use of prostitutes is always popular.
I guess all this comes from the so called catholic mentality that think of sex as a sin even inside marriage (what the??) and women are taught not to enjoy it and therefore the couple never learns to give and recieve pleasure. A relationship is not about pleasure, so you have to find it somewhere else. And since women cant feel pleasure, its always the man who is excused and sometimes praised when he search pleasure(/manhood) outside of marriage.
Its a pity, and these days it gets no better. there's no respect for relationships. Men and women seeking to take somebody else's man and taking pride of it. women hating echother competing for the same man.
I could hardly respect a man that cheat on his woman reiterately, not even if its with me!! why would i want him?? You can make a mistake, but having an affair or having not consideration for your woman/man is a different story and shows a weak character.
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