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Originally Posted by Kefentse_Bandele I have recentley parted from my beloved queen and find this question to be
most interesting. My problem is I have been entirely to superficial when
selectin' my queen. Does she have locks? Perm? Braids? How many children
she got? DId she read this book? Does she know this elder? I have
approached and dated sistas with yes to all the answers but it still didnt
reflect in their lifestyle and the way we react toward each other. The next
sista that tells me she thinks im a conscious thug i think im gonna committ
suicide...lol Anyways, I need to start building Kefentse and gettin' to know
self before I can be so picky about choosin my "long-term" queen and not
my "temporary" queen!
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true wordz could neva be so spoken bandele!
what caught in ur reply brother,is what u said," it didnt reflect their life styles" wow!
as for me,i try to walk the talk,not only talk,because like an proverb,afrikan proverb says" bea man of action and nota man of words" forgot who said that
somebody mentioned this to me,thats my problem here kenfetse,that i see in the rasta community in toronto,when they talk about jah dis and jah dat,a sister for me,has to be mentally,intellectually and spiritually compatible,in my early years i was busy chasin all kind of women,because hormonal urges lol
now,i am learning to control myself,as i grow older and wiser body,mind and soul,i am leaning more and more towards compatability,i dont walk with headwrapz on my head and pretend to be what i am not,for the most part,kenfetse,i have been thru poverty and have lived among my peers and console with dem,afrikan brazilians,living in bowels of amerika,a by product of abandonment,racism and neglect,if there isa soul mate for me,i hope she is somewhere to be seen,as they say," ur other half" has to complement me,in so many ways,heathwise and spiritually,the question in time and place,is that eventhough,for the most of that are conscious,some of dem,as u mentioned become un conscious,sub consciouly,because we live in this MODERN DAY ROME,as people get too confortable with this modern day rome get to offer,big cars,big houses,and the bling bling,thats the beggining of their self destruction,it applies for men and women" bea man of action and nota man of words"
humbly kweku
