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The Importance of Physical Attraction

The Importance of Physical Attraction

The following excerpt is from Amanmere - The Natural Blueprint for Sexual Relationships:

Body Style, Dictated by Archetype Nature

For some, sexual appeal is the proper shape and tone of the body. It is clear, smooth skin and a beautiful face. This is the general picture. But there is so much more. Knowing a person’s archetype nature allows one to focus in much more specifically on what is sexually attractive to them. Each archetype will be attracted by certain aspects of the body moreso than others. Some archetypes are focused in the head and neck region. A man from this archetype will find the lines of a beautiful neckline more appealing than other men. The cleavage of her breasts may arouse him more than breast size or shape. The way her earring accentuates her shoulder will catch his eye. The corresponding female of this archetype will like very much if the man has well defined deltoid muscles and broad shoulders. His head posture and hair will be important aspects of his look as far as she is concerned. A different archetype will be sexually centered in the thigh, genital area. For this male, a small waist, round buttocks and well developed thighs will be the part of the anatomy that arrests his attention the most. Another archetype will be centered in the upper abdomen, chest area. This female will find men attractive, who have well defined pectoral and chest shape. She will like his arms if they are muscular and sleek. Tight, washboard like abdominal muscles will cause her blood pressure to rise. Another archetype will be centered in the leg, feet area. Such a male will find most appealing a woman who has well defined calf muscles, sleek legs and thighs and well groomed feet and ankles. Petite ankles, designer stockings, groomed and decorated toenails, and toe cleavage will be a turn on for him.

Some of you readers may laugh at this, but if you question your peers of the opposite sex you may discover that what we have stated above is very valuable information, not to be taken lightly. As a man or woman gains an understanding of the nature of the opposite sex and the natural inclinations of the various archetypes, he or she can begin to maximize their appeal by emphasizing their physical aspects which have the greatest appeal. This technique only works if you are focusing your romantic attention on one particular person, or one specific archetype group. After a few months of casually studying the opposite sex, any woman can determine which of the seven archetypes she is most attracted to and most complimentary with. Ask some of the men from this archetype group which area of the body draws their attention the most. When the responses received are somewhat consistent, she will know which area of her body to design her presentation around. If she finds that the group of men she is trying to attract are leg/feet men, then it does not make sense for her to spend large amounts of money at the hair salon while neglecting her feet and legs. She may think her long pretty hair is her best asset, but the men who complimentary to her will disagree. While she is standing there preening her hair, the woman next to her with the miniskirt and designer shoes is getting all of their attention. To perfect the appeal of her aura, she would then cut back on her visits to the salon, and focus more attention below the waist. Invest the money in shoes, regular pedicures, designer stockings, ankle chains, and etc. This woman should spend more time in the gym working on her legs and thighs. She will defeat the force of her sexual aura if she always wears pants, and sneakers out in public. The same dynamic holds true for the males of each respective archetype.

While it may seem that this is an issue of the appeal of the outer body, it is not. Let us make something clear. It is not really the neckline, or cleavage, or ankles, or buttocks that we are talking about. It is the charka and layer of the auric field associated to that area of the body that we are subtly drawing attention to. It is not only the visual portion of the physical body that attracts more so, it is the vibrations radiated from the healthy auric field that has the true magnetic effect. The outer body in this case is a symbol. Again one must not think about this issue in a logical, left brain fashion. Use your right brain now. Understand what we are saying instinctively. And when the reader can begin to instinctively consider this subject, they can take sexual attraction to a higher level. Such a person can tap into the inner feelings of their partner. This woman that likes your shoulders and neckline and hair, will have an inner attribute that reflects the outer abstract attraction. In other words she will be attracted to the man that personifies the artistic ideal, reflective of regal bearing. The hair is the physical equivalent of the psychic crown. She wants you to be her king, bearing yourself in proud and dignified manner. Broad shoulders signify a man who can take the weight of great responsibility. A fine neckline is indicative of refinement and sexual purity. In writing words, that must be comprehended by the left brain first, this presentation loses something. But I am counting on the fact that the reader can read between the lines. The man who is attracted to a small waist, round buttocks, and full thighs, is attracted inwardly to a woman who is very fertile and effulgent. He wants her to own land and represent as his mate, the richness of the fruits of the garden. The dynamics of this man’s inner attraction are the dynamics of the womb. The womb is the garden, from which can sprang the marvelous fruits of humanity. And from it also springs the great pleasure of sexual bonding. The womb area is a circle, when the waist is small and buttocks and thighs rounded. And this circle is symbolic of the fertile egg, the orb of primal matter, that attracts the inner man. For it is an aspect of his id femme. And in the same way the breast represent to another man the nurturing character of mother’s milk. To a third man the feet and legs represent a woman well grounded to the earth, able to receive his masculinity. The females who naturally exert the most erotic attraction for men are practicing this principle, even if most of them do not realize it consciously.

Pages 226 – 228

Amanmere – The Natural Blueprint for Sexual Relationships
By
Yao Nyamekye Morris
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For those who are interested in learning more about archetypes, particularly sexual archetypes I would refer you to 2004 edition of Afrikan Holistic Health by Llaila O. Afrika. The information can be found on pages 369 - 375.

If you can find Amanmere you would get an even better overstanding but like most material of a deeper nature the book is hard to find.

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medase pa for the info! this ol afrikan man always learning sumthin new eveeryday,ol byt young at heart! hehe!
ican outrun some young bros here in my area hehe
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This is very useful for everyone. Uhuru warrior!
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Taking it to another level.
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Greetings,

The beauty of this information is that anyone can verify it for themselves. When I was first presented with it, I was like, "whatever". Then I started to apply the information and it blew me away. Knowing what attracted me to a particular sista and what attracted a sista to me helped explain my "colorful" relationship history. Many sistas were attracted to my face, calling me a "pretty boy" many times. At first I thought it was superficial but they were not so much attracted to my bone structure but to my upper chakras representing my spiritual/intellectual nature. Looking back I realize these particular sistas were looking to connect more on a spiritual/intellectual level. They were more interested in mental stimulation.

As an aside, despite the media hype, I think MOST sistas ultimately LOOK for the spiritual nature in brothas which is why religous leaders make out like they do.

Now I had some sistas who thought I was a'ight but went on about my body, especially when I practically lived in a gym. Depending on the body part, I now know what they were looking for. The sistas who liked my chest were looking for nuturing and maybe protection. Think about the comfort a baby girl feels while sleeping on her father's chest. The woman liked my legs were looking for a well-grounded brotha.

Now flipping things around sistas with strong shapely legs always caught my attention. I know know that I was attracted to their down to earth nature. Of course, like other brothas I'm attracted to a nice round posterior. As the excerpt mentioned the this part of a sista represents fertility. A man is drawn to a sista on this level is inwardly drawn to the modality of family life because he will have an inner desire to procreate.

At the same time I've never had a big attraction for a sista's breasts or even her face. On a deeper level this meant I didn't look for nurturing from a sista or even spirituality. Maybe because I grew up around some hardnosed sistas. That's another thread though. Now if I see a sista with what I consider a pretty face or nice breasts I know I have an insight into their inner character no matter what type facade they may present.

Someone who masters this knowledge can shall tell everything about a person without them saying a word. Traditional healers from Afrika can take one look at someone and tell what's going on with them.

Now I know many people may have problems with the physical attraction piece because of the society we live in. What the Setians do is take our natural urges and manipulate them for their own ends. The key for us is to still apply this knowledge tempered with wisdom. A person can still highlight their physical attributes in a manner. To me a sista with long modest skirt that let's you know SOMETHING is there is way more appealing than some of these sistas dressing like prostitutes. The energy is still coming though but in subtle manner which will INFLUENCE a brotha to step to her in a RESPECTFUL manner.

Here's an exercise for the people who read this thread. Lurkers too. Take a piece a paper and write down the name of everyone you've been in a relationship with. Then write down what attracted you to them physically. If there was no physical attraction, write that down too. Look for any patterns and trust me there will be at least one pattern.

I'll check back later.

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The following excerpt is from The Return - Book of the Yao by Yao Nyamekye Morris

The sensual appeal of the physical body is a very important attribute. When we deal with spiritual topics, we tend to want to down play the body, but we should not. For it is the form of the physical body that attracts on the most basic level. And we need the flesh to provide the tangible vehicle for the aura to work through. Our voice, our smell, our hair, our nails, are all divine parts of who we are. Eash part can express another aspect of our inner sensual nature. The body is the chief means of arousing the partner. The body talks. The dancer knows this body language. The language has no sound, no thoughts, only feelings. It is a right-brain thing. It is a rhythm thing.

The Return page 139



Someone may wonder why I'm presenting this information. The reason is simple. Our relationship issues are tearing us apart. Yet the solutions we try to apply to the problems are NOT working. Everything I've presented works because people have got positive results by applying this information. This is NOT theory. This is ANCIENT knowledge that goes further back than even Kemet. Our ancestors faced the same problems we do know and figured out HOW to solve them.

Many of those ancestors who solved those problems have returned or are returning.

It's up to us to heed the message.

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Here's an exercise for the people who read this thread. Lurkers too. Take a piece a paper and write down the name of everyone you've been in a relationship with. Then write down what attracted you to them physically. If there was no physical attraction, write that down too. Look for any patterns and trust me there will be at least one pattern.

I'll check back later.

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Wow.

Just wow.

I saw two main patterns; in who I attracted and who I am attracted to.

What stunned me was that both of my son's fathers are the same type that attracted me and they both literally chased me down because they were attracted to certain aspects about myself. They both were attracted to the very same ones.
However I divorced/broke it off from both of them because they failed to provide what I was looking for even though by looking at them, they could provide it. They just were not able/willing to follow through.
Does that make sense to you?

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Our voice, our smell, our hair, our nails, are all divine parts of who we are. Eash part can express another aspect of our inner sensual nature.
You know, there is just something about a brotha with a southern drawl...
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Greetings Sister Mamazen,

I think the key thing you said, "I divorced/broke it off from both of them because they failed to provide what I was looking for even though by looking at them, they could provide it. They just were not able/willing to follow through." On one level you could inwardly sense their potential. It was on the brothas shoulders to cultivate their potential. Chalk that up to the culture we live in. In a culture that promoted spiritual growth these brothas would have engaged in the work to reach their full potential.

Now let me throw something else in there. Do either of these brothas resemble your father or any male figure who was around you when you were around the age of seven? This can be in either physical appearance or behavior patterns. Here's something many people don't realize. Subconsciously people will look to mate with someone who is like their opposite sex parent. A blueprint is set around the age of seven. If the opposite sex parent was functional, conscious, mature, and a compatible type personality everything is gravy. Many people however have dysfunctional parents and subconsciously they will feel the strongest attraction to someone with the same energy. For example, a woman with an alcoholic and abusive father will feel a STRONG attraction for these type of men even if consciously she detests these types of men.

Another interesting example has to do with the men we call Playas which everybody seems to have an opinion. Many of these brothas had inattentive or even abusive mothers and as a coping mechanism learn how to manipulate women to get what they want. They transfer this skill over to the women they encounter in life. Another example is when these men as little boys see their mother deal with many different type of men. They are not going to have a high opinion of women when they grow up or a subconscious desire to settle down.

Keep in mind I'm just presenting the tip of the iceberg. There are many other factors involved which I'm still learning.

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Now let me throw something else in there. Do either of these brothas resemble your father or any male figure who was around you when you were around the age of seven? This can be in either physical appearance or behavior patterns. Here's something many people don't realize. Subconsciously people will look to mate with someone who is like their opposite sex parent. A blueprint is set around the age of seven. If the opposite sex parent was functional, conscious, mature, and a compatible type personality everything is gravy. Many people however have dysfunctional parents and subconsciously they will feel the strongest attraction to someone with the same energy. For example, a woman with an alcoholic and abusive father will feel a STRONG attraction for these type of men even if consciously she detests these types of men.



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Now that I really think about it, yes they both strongly do, behavior wise.. Physically, They both now differ from my father.They both suffer from the same malady (hypertension) which is Kicking their butts since they take care of evertyhing but themselves.

My father however, is one of the last of his surviving siblings. Out of 9 siblings he is #7. His twin brother died decades ago. He and his yongest sister are the only ones left. He is a strict vegan, no smoking, drinking. This year he celebrated his 70th Earthday and looks around 50-60.
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hmmm very interesting. i seem to be attracted to brothers' faces, specifically their smiles....i wonder what that means. lol. can you help a sista?
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Greetings Sister Mamazen,

In this particular situation the behavior is going to be the most important factor. That said, check out pictures of your father when he was younger and compare them to your ex-husbands.

Like I said though, the information presented is something people can check out for themselves. I certainly did before I integrated it into my consciousness.

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Greetings Sister Naturallyme,

You are attracted to a brotha's spiritual/intellectual nature in general. Particularly with a brotha's smile you are attracted to his communication ability. Read up on chakras particularly the throat chakra because there are many traits connected with this chakra. The throat chakra impacts our ability to express ourselves, the sound of our voice, which is sensual in itself, and on an esoteric it plays a role in psychic ability. On another level healthy teeth it means that a brotha has an healthy body and he able to regulate the sexual energy flowing through his body. It also means that he is to an extent fearless. Bringing it full circle a person full of fear wouldn't likely express themselves fully or even truthfully. If a person is having trouble with their throat chakra they can begin the road to healing by simply saying what's on their mind.

Let me know how accurate I am with the brothas you find attractive. Are they the type to speak their mind?

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hmm you're right about outspoken men! i seem to be drawn to men who like to be centers of attention (comedians), and somehow stand out from the crowd, even if just by verbal expression (poets). hmm interesting. the intellectuals is right also. i have other questions...maybe i'll pm you.

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Greetings Sister Naturallyme,

Let me know how accurate I am with the brothas you find attractive. Are they the type to speak their mind?

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