Women rule the world?
by, 08-25-2010 at 03:24 PM (943 Views)
It's amazing how much I get from a woman. I'm sure ego prevents many from really appreciating the settle graces that comes along with their presence. Seriously, woman have a huge undeniable impact on men. And, I suspect this goes for gay/ gender confused men, and misogynist also. As an example, I was talking to a sister yesterday and my thoughts began to wonder in mid-conversation on how beautiful this woman was. Her intelligence, humor, and sensuality was so embellishing that I was some what awe struck. I'm not the type of brother that pursues women for the sake of. I like to be sociable with out the need to cater my romantic side. (Sike, this is what I tell myself when I meet a sister out of my league lol) However, after our conversation I was kinda cool for the rest of the day. Even so, I am normally cool but this cool was slightly more cooler than my normal cool. I suddenly became aware of the correlation between beautiful women (Not just physical beauty) and their effect on us. Now, I over-stand some may be screaming this is obvious. They use women to sell everything from an Apple to a Zamboni but I assumed that this was limited to low IQ or sexual ambiguity. Thus, out of arrogance I have always held that such Jedi mind games would not effect of brotha of my hue. Once again I was proven wrong. Me and my cousin was shopping for a some casuals to attend a friends wedding. We stopped at a Guess Outlet. Long story short, just because of a woman's approving smile I ended up buying a shirt that unfortunately for me was a gay dude magnet. I began examining all the instances in politics, Psycho-social dynamics, even in the formation of gender it self where in which women have influenced.(This not a generalization, it's fact) Basically, I am who I am for the sake of a woman and as a result of a females influence. Damn! This is why emotional validation is so important and partly the reason why men innately fear women. The hand that rocks the cradle rules the world is not a euphemism ladies. When I hear sisters complain that there are few good men left, I immediately suggest that maybe women have a helping hand in that. Especially in our communities, considering the high instances of female headed households. Maybe, just maybe, the world would be a better place if women used their Jedi mind tricks for the sake of good and not just for petty ambitions and false esteem. (That's a Joke). Remember this saying, "Men have women by chance and women have them by choice."
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