i appreciate your response, Sista. Let me start by saying that it's up to the people to determine who their leadership is, those who the media props up as our leaders are not those who are actually putting in the daily work of educating and working to bring an end to our collective misery. Our *true* leaders *do* encompass not only some of the brothas on this site, but the brothas whose writings are featured on this site and thetalkingdrum.com, as well as the everyday brothas whose impact on our people, and particularly our young boys, may forever go unheralded.
i do get irked when i see black men who choose the farthest thing from a nappy-headed, melinated Sista that they can find: but i also understand that there are many Sistas who do the same. We can't let this system and it's media off the hook in presenting a distorted picture to us all! For example, Kola's choice to attack light-skinned blacks for being something they can't help being born as is illogical and counter-revolutionary. We Sistas can't ever let anyone's choices determine how we self-define, and my more pressing issue is our Sistas who choose to alter their physical image to fit into a pre-packaged format designed by the
crackas who are the ultimate decision-makers on what we consume as "entertainment." Our people are lapping at the bowl of what others tell us is "beauty" and have done so for centuries. Suffice it to say for right now, that i'm definitely prepared to struggle over Kola's strengths as well are her weaknesses on all the issues she raises without anyone feeling personally wounded, and hopefully we can get down like that in the future.
For right now, for the limited time i'm online, i want to offer that before you or anybody else states that Kola is the *only one* to ever speak in a radical voice for our Sistas, that you *please* check out two books: Assata Shakur's biography "Assata" about which there are discussions on the forum as well as in Queens United; and Winnie Mandela's "Part of My Soul Went With Him," a small book, a quick, absorbing, powerful read. Both of these Sistas are valiant and courageous; both of these Sistas understand that our struggle encompasses our
entire black family; and both of these Sistas understand that as Sistas we are unique in our being the lowest of the low not only in white society, but in black everyday life. In the spirit of P.E. (political education), i urge you to check out these Sistas and i guarantee that you will not only feel them as fully as you do Kola, but that you will appreciate them equally... if not a whole lot more.
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Originally Posted by Avila Thomson NO---you misuderstood.
I meant a Black men in leadership position such as Farrkhan, Jesse Jackson or any black male celebrity.
I have never once seem/heard them mention that fact that many, many black men are prejudiced, colorist against black females and date/marry accordingly. Kola Boof is the first and she takes no prisons. I have even noticed that most black women are in denial about the self-hatred in our community, trying to protecting black men's ego at all costs.
Although brothers on this board may speak of these issues, I have not experienced black men calling out other black men in public or even admitting that it exists.
We also have sisters with serious self-hate issues, but just like the studies show, it's way more black men who are openly prejudiced against black women.
If black females don't say something about it now, and say it loud and clear, then we're going to produce another generation of black boys who are even worse, because right now this is the only example they have is the one set by rappers, pimps and black celebrities who only date/marry white.
Kola is the first and only person I've heard who is brave enough to risk being hated just to tell the truth.
I'm not her publicist. I'm a really grateful FAN of the woman. I just can't believe that somebody is finally speaking up for the sisters and making demands. I guess it took an African woman, who knows that she belongs in front, to speak up so boldly. |