| Be mindful...
Not "trying" to be a party pooper, but then again, I wouldn't at all be offended if that's how someone chose to take me.lol It's kinda like how the baby is just giggling up a storm because his uncle is throwing him up and down in the air. The aunt or someone'll come around and say,"You have to be CAREFUL doing that. It may SEEM like fun but that could really HURT him!" Not that the aunt/person wants to rain on the giggling baby's parade, but what type of aunt/person would they be to feel to say something that is in someone's best interest to keep in mind yet not say it?
With this said....
The Internet is a microcosm of The World. A whole lot of people saying things that they really feel as well as things that they really do not feel. A whole lot of crazy individuals acting as if they are perfectly normal. A whole lot of cool people and a whole lot of unbalanced people and a whole bunch of people who you'd never want to even be around if you knew what they were REALLY like.
In short... I'm not saying that online mate scouting is a definite dead-end. I'm simply saying that it already can get crazy when you are dealing with people that you CAN see, so just keep in mind that it can get even crazier when you are dealing with people that you canNOT see.
The micro=the macro.
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It is proof of a base and low mind for one to wish to think with the masses or majority, merely because the majority is the majority. Truth does not change because it is, or is not, believed by a majority of the people. "
-Giordano Bruno |